How I Style My Hair

Hope everyone had a fantastic weekend!

I’ve received so many requests to share how I style my hair.  This is as good as it gets because you guys do not want to wait lol

While I always curl my hair the same way, it does not always turn out the same. It depends what products I’m using (mainly shampoo and conditioner are what changes frequently and those alone make a huge difference for my hair).

Update:  I’ve been using this Cleansing Volumizing Paste Shampoo and each time I do (which is about 1-2 a week), my hair look so much better.  I have really thin hair so this new products has been amazing (I still use the styling products mentioned below).

One hair product in particular will change your life. Or in this case your hair πŸ˜‰

Before I start, let me share the shampoo(s) and conditioner(s) I use. I currently have three different brands in my shower(s)  (always looking for the next best thing. Guilty). 

The last one I purchased is the Matrix Biolage R.A.W. Nourishing Shampoo and Conditioner (because it more natural).

The second shampoo brand I use and like is Redken All Soft which really makes my hair super soft. It lives up to its name. Works great for dry hair.

And the other one is Alterna Caviar Rx Instant Recovery Shampoo and Conditioner. I actually like the Anti-Aging Replenishing Moisture line a lot better (have purchased travel sizes a few times. Would buy full size again). 

 And then I use this Hair Mask once a week (it’s nice but I would try a different one once I ran out).


Many of you asked me what type of hair cut I got.
I asked for a straight blunt cut. She softened the ends a little (I think this might be called a soft blunt cut or a parallel-under-cut).  Since I have some breakage from bleaching it might appear that I have random layers. I do have a few, here and there, but not on purpose.

“Invest in your hair. It’s the crown you wear every day”

How I style my hair:

After washing I wrap my hair in a cotton tee or tank (less harsh than a towel) just for a few min and then use Bauble and Bumble Thickening Full From Volume Mousse which I’ve repurchased many times. It works wonders on thin hair (a little goes a long way. don’t use too much).  Another one I love and use is Kerastase Volume Increasing Hair Gel.  These two are my favorites (and I’ve tried SO many, cheap and expensive options).

Next I use a little bit of Alterna Caviar CC cream 10-in-1 Complete Correction as well as Schwarzkopf Repair Conditioner (can be used on wet or dry hair).

Since I have semi curly/wavy hair I straighten by “bangs” and also ends.

Last year I decided to splurge on the T3 whirl trio and while it is pricey it is amazing. No regrets.
Since I cut my hair short I pretty much just use the 1 inch barrel.

1. Separate the hair for easier curling.  Hold the wand upside down and wrap the hair around leaving ends out, about 1-2 inches.  Leaving the ends uncurled is the key.  Make sure the hair is spaced out as seen in the picture below. Curl all the hair. 

2. Let the curls set, don’t touch them for a few minutes.
Next, run your fingers through to loosen the waves, starting at the roots…this will give it a slightly messy look (also shake up the roots a little). 

3.  Next I spray with magic –  Oribe Dry Texturizing Spray. That’s what makes my thin hair look thicker and adds amazing texture and volume. Without it I can’t achieve the look you usually see.   It is $$ (I originally bought a travel size spray to make sure I like it).  No other texturizing spray works as good, for me, as this one.

Lift up sections of your hair with your fingers and spray underneath (I usually tilt my hair to the side πŸ™‚  Spray more if needed.  Lift the roots with your fingers for a slight messy look.

Basically there are two important steps:  Leave the ends out when you curl (a couple of inches), run your fingers through and spray with the magic texturizing spray.  That’s really it. Super easy! 

Keep in mind that everyone hair is different. What works for my hair, might not work for yours. Trial and error peeps. πŸ˜‰

If you don’t achieve the look you’re going for the first time don’t give up. Practice makes perfect πŸ˜‰

I will be giving-away two full size Oribe Dry Texturzing Sprays,  Make sure you follow me on Instagram for more info…coming today or tomorrow.

Thanks for reading!

p.s. if you’re looking to go shorter, definitely check out @anhcotran on Instagram.  Amazing shorter hair inspiration.  I discovered him after I cut my hair (with it was before).  He’s amazing!


  1. anitaINla
    February 12, 2018 / 5:45 pm

    love this! i have a similar cut and never understood how to do it righr πŸ™‚ I'm not on insta but would love the spray. I had it sitting in my cart since you mentioned it a few posts back.

    • Lilly Style
      February 14, 2018 / 1:03 am

      It's a good length to play with and figure out what looks the best πŸ˜‰ Perhaps I'll do the giveaway on here and Instagram.

  2. Ruby Gaxiola
    February 12, 2018 / 8:24 pm

    Love it! thank you for sharing xoxo

    • Lilly Style
      February 14, 2018 / 1:03 am

      Thank you Ruby πŸ™‚

  3. Jai
    February 12, 2018 / 9:52 pm

    I'm so glad you posted this hair tutorial. I love your style. I just followed your IG and would love to try the Oribe spray.

    • Lilly Style
      February 14, 2018 / 1:04 am

      Thank you so much πŸ™‚ Stayed tuned for the giveaway.

  4. Ella Pretty Blog
    February 13, 2018 / 12:41 am

    Can't wait to give this a try! I don't space out my curls on the wand like you do – am going to see if it makes a difference!

    • Lilly Style
      February 14, 2018 / 1:06 am

      With shorter hair I see the difference. I didn't pay much attention to this when it was longer πŸ˜‰

  5. Melissa Clark
    February 13, 2018 / 5:54 am

    Your hair is always so lovely, I’m glad you’ve shared how you do it! I’ve been contemplating a similar fresh β€œcut” lately, so your tutorial may give me the extra boost to do it! I’m glad you mentioned how you use the oribe spray, too. I’ve been curious about it…

    • Lilly Style
      February 22, 2018 / 3:17 am

      Thank you Melissa! Go for the cut! I never thought I would cut my hair this short…ever…but I'm loving it.

  6. Jennifer Cox
    February 13, 2018 / 6:04 am

    Do you blow dry your hair? After the products go in? Or do you diffuse? If you could explain how you get your Hair dry would be so helpful! Thanks Lilly!!!

    • Lilly Style
      February 14, 2018 / 1:01 am

      I do blow-dry it…(usually once it's about 60-70% air dried). I try to blow dry it straight but I end up looking like Zach Galifianakis in Masterminds (minus the beard) lol. I always straighten my "bangs" with a straightening iron and just used a curling iron to create loose waves but now I have to straighten a bit more with this hair cut (smooth it over a little and straighten the ends). πŸ™‚

  7. Teresa Loop
    February 13, 2018 / 3:31 pm

    Love this tutorial! This is the cutest cut on you!

    • Lilly Style
      February 14, 2018 / 1:06 am

      Thanks so much Teresa πŸ™‚

  8. Dawn
    February 13, 2018 / 10:12 pm

    Haven’t tried Instagram, need to! I love any product that gives texture or adds volume to my thin hair. Thanks- will be looking for these to purchase

    • Lilly Style
      February 22, 2018 / 3:19 am

      Instagram can be good as long as one knows when to turn it off πŸ˜‰ I'm definitely a hair product junkie, tried SO many products over the years and just love this spray and Bumble and Bumble thickening mousse. have repurchased both.

  9. Heidi Daoud
    February 15, 2018 / 8:14 pm

    I've been wondering about your hair, it looks phenomenal! Pinning this post!Heidi || Wishes & Reality

    • Lilly Style
      February 22, 2018 / 3:16 am

      Thank you Heidi πŸ™‚

  10. Jess T
    February 22, 2018 / 12:50 am

    Love your hair Lilly! I will have to try that Oribe spray! I'm hopeful for a solution to my thin hair and lack of volume. Jess |

    • Lilly Style
      February 22, 2018 / 3:15 am

      Thank you Jess! I've tried SOOO many products over the years and I'm really loving this spray. And the bumble and bumble thickening mouse (my sister loves it too).

  11. Kim Vasquez
    February 22, 2018 / 2:23 am

    I never would've guessed that you have thin hair!!!! Thanks for sharing – I'll be trying out these products soon since I have relatively thin hair myself!

    • Lilly Style
      February 22, 2018 / 3:07 am

      Products give it life and make it appear thicker…that's why I'm willing to spend a little extra $ on the "crown" πŸ˜‰

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